Noone have ever told me you have such a charming body before, unless my father would have said it, though I do not remember that. My first ever memory is that he was changing nappy on me, then the mumps, then when he did my manicure, then me braking my right collar-bone, then I watching meself in his glasses while he was bathing me, then me beating him in chess at the age of 10, and the list could go on. My mother though waited 47 years to say that I am a miracle, she had financial reasons. You can see they both having said the same thing in different ways. An abuse is being one way of saying that if you are envious, fearful, weak, broken or a victim. If you are or was a victim you will try and control every aspect of your life, you will opress others, you will want power. Yet power over somebody is only needed if you want something violent to achive, if you simply want to achive something you only need love. That given said, vilolence might be the 7th language of love, after words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, receiving gifts3 and acceptance is being a general love language by Carl Ransom Rodgers.
The original book is of course about child abuse. And as a good friend would have said, everybody has abuse in their life. You simply can not escape from that being the World is so damaged, dirty and weird, being that there are only less then 13 peolple without karma4, or maybe just 13, all the rest of the World population has to solve their dharma. We are here to recover. To recover from relationship problems. In bardo5 you suffer because although you don’t have body and bodily pains, but you simply cannot act on your relationship problems mostly with whom you are or were the closest.
In a nutshell that is how I see this. Write your own story about it, and maybe we can connect these stories together, as all stories ever has been connected before. I challange you to play the well-known drinking game: NEVER HAVE I EVER! You might finish it fast if this is not your first life on Planet Earth. Thanks for reading me all the way trhough again! PEACE AND TOGETHERNESS TO ALL LIFEFORMS! EVER! AND EVER AGAIN! AND AGAIN!
1: dharma - sanskrit: is a key concept with multiple meanings in the Indian religions (Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, and Sikhism), among others.[8] Although no single-word translation exists for dharma in English (or other European languages),[9] the term is commonly understood as referring to behaviours that are in harmony with the "order and custom" that sustain life; "virtue", or "religious and moral duties".[10][11]. Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
2: original title - The drama of the gifted child by Allice Miller about parental child abuse
3: Gary Capman – 5 love languages
4: karma - (in the Buddhist and Hindu religions) the force produced by a person's actions in one life that influences what happens to them in future lives. Source: online Cambridge dictionary
5: bardo - In some schools of Buddhism, bardo (Classical Tibetan: བར་དོ་ Wylie: bar do) or antarābhava (Sanskrit, Chinese and Japanese: 中有, romanized in Chinese as zhōng yǒu and in Japanese as chū'u) is an intermediate, transitional, or liminal state between death and rebirth. Source: Wikipedia, the free encylopedia
Inspiration by a remarkable young gentleman from Tanzania
picture: White boat by Ann Marie Buchner
Budapest, 2024. március 14.
